Comments on: BDSMAA http://readmykink.com/2009/10/13/bdsmaa/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=bdsmaa Fri, 04 Nov 2011 01:50:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Katja http://readmykink.com/2009/10/13/bdsmaa/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Katja Wed, 14 Oct 2009 00:12:45 +0000 http://readmykink.com/?p=31#comment-15 kaja, what you are experiencing is not uncommon, at least not for the people I know. In my little world of vocabulary, my friends and I have called what you are experiencing as "sub drop". (This of course is not a term I coined, merely one I use.) Sub drop appears to happen a few days after the events. The drop can vary depending on far too many factors to list; however, from what you have shared I would say you are experiencing many of them. With regards to your feelings, it is important to be aware of this particular event, "sub drop" and to understand what those feelings are and what they mean. I would encourage you to record your feelings and to always express them and to take notice when they happen, (i.e. one day after, two days after). I am pleased that you shared this. ~His kaja,
what you are experiencing is not uncommon, at least not for the people I know. In my little world of vocabulary, my friends and I have called what you are experiencing as “sub drop”. (This of course is not a term I coined, merely one I use.)

Sub drop appears to happen a few days after the events. The drop can vary depending on far too many factors to list; however, from what you have shared I would say you are experiencing many of them.

With regards to your feelings, it is important to be aware of this particular event, “sub drop” and to understand what those feelings are and what they mean.

I would encourage you to record your feelings and to always express them and to take notice when they happen, (i.e. one day after, two days after).

I am pleased that you shared this.

~His

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